Why should you get to know paulaperfect?

I asked a friend to describe me in 5 words because this is a really difficult thing to write about yourself and lets be honest, it is merely a self advertising exercise, which none of us will be comfortable with
challenging
articulate
charismatic
sexy/sexual
emotionally intelligent
I would add honest and loyal (but I dont have a shiny coat or a wet nose)
Fun, unconventional and daring ... as happy in a pair of wellies, as I am in a cocktail dress and dont care about the venue, care about the company!

She describes her ideal match thus:

Confident
Successful
Adventurous
Fun
Emotionally stable
Sociable
Outgoing
Challenging
Sorry about the list, but I believe in honesty!!!! Check 5 and we should be talking

OK that was just darn lazy! I have the attention span of a gnat as you can see and was decidedly bored by this point. Thought I should commit some more time to this.
How on earth do you describe anyone here ... we all know that chemistry is so important. However, I would have to tell the truth and say that there is a long list of things which aid. If you are comfortable in your own skin, confident(even bordering on arrogant), honest and successful then maybe we should talk. I dont find victims or unsuccessful people attractive, does that make me shallow? I dont want to date an ugly bug, but yoou dont need to be George Clooney to be attractive to me. I dont want to have to make decisions on where we go and what we do, but would like a choice. I want my cake and to eat it too!!!!!! Wahhhhhhh!
:-)