Last January I was contacted by a man who, when I checked his profile, was only a 58% match. He persisted in sending me messages when I hadn't paid a member's fee, and in the end curiosity got the better of me and I paid up!

We have now been together since January and he is the kindest and most easy going person who perhaps didn't match on things like 'I don't like pets' or 'height' or 'age' but after 9 years of looking I am now happy to be with this person for ---- who knows ---we haven't quite sorted that yet but I am very hopeful!

Chris